“Much love, peace, and comfort to the Cramers and all people that Maddie touched during her time with us. We miss you so much.

Nothing can dim the light that shines from within. -Maya Angelou”

— Tim Thompson

“I miss Maddie’s face when she had something so funny to tell that it took her three laughing snorts and a voice several octaves higher than her own to finally spill the story. And then the seriousness of the stories she shared about the kids she cared for. She knew them like they had been in her life forever. I just miss jumping in your bed and hearing your wisdom. I think of you everyday my sweet niece”

— Aunt Kristy

“Maddie was my college roommate at Drake for a semester. I think of her often, nearly every day. She was a shining light. Thank you for bringing her into this world and creating this to remember her. It doesn’t feel like she is gone.”

— Danielle Weiler

February 26, 2023

“Happy birthday beautiful, I miss you more than you know.

For the people reading, please hold your loved ones close. Your time here is so precious and you are so loved. Please continue to keep our family in your hearts and thank you for all of the support.”

— Juliet Cramer

“I first met Maddy when we worked at the same restaurant. She was new to Olympia, so I introduced her to my friends and the mutual aid community. Everyone liked her right away. We will remember her as being so dedicated to the community and always willing to help, whether it was a friend or stranger in need. She was fun and loved intellectual conversations. I will remember her love of music. My deepest condolences to her family and friends. Rest in peace lovely Maddy.”

— Nastassia west

“Oh Pam & Jeff, I heard this terrible news. My heart goes out to you guys. I can’t imagine. My sincere condolences. Hope you’re able to find peace.”

— Ken Hei

“Dear Pam and Family,
I am sending you all the positive thoughts and healing energy I can. This is an incredible loss to the world. If the rest of the family is as genuine and wonderful as Pam is then I know the bell tolls for all of us. May the memories shine big and bright as you grieve this terrible loss.
With all the love I can muster,
Drew Hansen”

— Drew Hansen

“Beautiful shining Maddie. A magnificent and luminous star. We weren’t meant to have you with us for very long, but how bright was the light you shined on all who knew you - and loved you - for your passion, kindness, generosity, adventurousness and intelligence. You fought the good fight, but God had other plans for you. May your beautiful soul find rest and solace. I will miss you, and remember you in my prayers, for the rest of my life. To Maddie’s family, heartfelt prayers for comfort to you all. May love be what you remember the most.
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. – Kahlil Gibran.”

— Daria Castiglione

“Dearest Pam, Jeff, Caroline and Juliet- We send all our love and support, and a million hugs for your broken hearts. I care so deeply for all of you in your inconsolable sadness and grief in losing your dear sweet strong-willed Maddie. As much as it was so difficult to lose my husband, and the children’s father, I always said there could be nothing worse than for parents to lose their child. May your dear Maddie be at peace; and may many hugs and prayers carry your hurting hearts gently through the darkness into a time of light. All our love, Susan, Barron, Lauren, Christie, Danielle.”

— Susan Young and YoungSmith Family

“Cramer family, we are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy and condolences to your entire family.”

— Justin Dean & Family

“Dear Pam and Jeff and family. I am so sorry to hear about your loss all my condolences and prayers go out to you and your family. Nothing but love to you all.”

— Rusty Sherry

“Our hearts break for your tragic loss. The photo gallery shows that she was loved by many. God has her in His arms now, and she is at peace. We will pray that He also gives you the strength to continue living with her beautiful memories.
Our deepest sympathy.”

— Janine, Jay, Jack & Mac Freeman

“Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.”

— Kevin & Amy Larson

“Dear Cramer family:
I was so sorry to hear the news about Maddie. I always enjoyed her company while we were both in the Lower School. We had numerous conversations about the M&M's in my office. I had to make good on a promise I apparently had made to her about green M&M's. I did it on one of my return trips to C.A. I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.”

— Tom Fitzgerald a.k.a. Dr Fitz

“How can a few words hold the totality of grief and loss, hope and love that encompass Maddie's loss? I am heartbroken for you.

Now you dwell inside the rhythm of breath,
As close to us as we are to ourselves.

Though we cannot see you with outward eyes,
We know our soul's gaze is upon your face,
Smiling back at us from within everything

On the Death of the Beloved by John O’Donohue”

— Elizabeth Richards

“Maddie was so loved! The gallery of photos made us smile and we know you carry many more memories of your time with her. Our hearts go out to you as you heal; there are no adequate words … we send our love and support, and look forward to hearing stories of Maddie for years to come.”

— Sylvion, Addie, & Jordan Moss

“Dear Pam, Jeff, Caroline and Juliet,
My heart breaks for your grief and the loss of such a beautiful spirit. I have many sweet memories of Maddie and want to add my prayers for you all at this difficult time.”

— Sue Counterman

“We are holding you all in our prayers as you say goodbye to your beautiful Maddie. May the memories of her fill you will strength and joy. Sending so much love, light and peace to you all.
Love to you, Dawn”

— Dawn Mueller Burke and Family

“Dearest Pam, Jeff, Caroline, and Juliet — nothing I say can ease the deep grief of losing a sibling or a child. So know that I am here to listen and love and hold space for your healing whenever, if ever, you need. Maddie was, and always will be, so loved.”

— Danielle YoungSmith

“Jeff, Pam, Juliet, Caroline and the entire Cramer Family, Words cannot express our heartfelt condolences for the unbearable loss of your precious Maddie. From the gallery of pictures, we see how loved Maddie was by so many as your wonderful, beautiful daughter, sister, granddaughter, niece, cousin and friend to so many. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Rest in Peace dear, sweet, precious Maddie.”

— Bill & Donna Rubin

“Maddie is finally at peace. Now we need to live our lives to honor her spirit of infinite joyfulness and her dedicated search for truth and meaning in life. Let us commit ourselves to live as she wanted to live, above all always wanting to do good for others. If we carry her in our hearts and minds, she will not have died in vain. I will never forget her, I thank God that we knew and understood one another, and that her immortal soul is at peace. I pray for healing for everyone in her family and her wide and dedicated circle of friends.”

— Erich Cramer

“Cramer Family, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Maddie was such a light, and brought joy to all of those around her. I'll be forever thankful to Maddie for taking me under her wing as a new kid in middle school, and will cherish the memories we had. I'll always remember her contagious laugh - she never failed to put a smile on my face. She made everyone's life brighter, and will be dearly missed. Sending all of our love.”

— Hayley Bittman & Family

“All of our hearts are saddened by the loss of Maddie.
May your faith and the love from all those near and far bring your family some comfort.”

— Michael and Sharon Janssen

“All of our hearts are saddened by the loss of Maddie.
May your faith and the love from all those near and far bring your family some comfort.”

— Michael and Sharon Janssen

“Juliet, Caroline, Pam and Jeff, we are so devastated by your loss. Our hearts are breaking for your family.”

— Karen Montanye and Carmen Doeschot

“Caroline, Juliet, Pam, and Jeff,
My heart is breaking for all of you. I have very special memories of Maddie and I know she had a huge impact on so many lives. I can’t be with you tomorrow but know all of you are close to my heart and I pray that God holds you in the palm of his hand and comforts you.
Sending my deepest sympathies and all my love.”

— Cindy Jordan

“We are thinking of you during this time of shock and sadness. Please reach out if you need anything.”

— Mr. & Mrs. Bryan Gilbert

“My love and prayers for your family a precious daughter, sister, cousin, friend, gone too soon. We love you all, The Barnes family”

— Regina Barnes

“Pam, Jeff, Caroline and Juliet,
May you find comfort in knowing that others are holding you close in their hearts during this difficult time”

— Alan and Gayle Talesnick

“I only met Maddie a couple times but from spending so much time around your family throughout my adolescent life, it was clear how much her family loved her. I wish everyone peace, comfort, and lots of love during this time of sorrow.”

— Delaney Troyer

“Dear Pam and Family,

My healing and supportive thoughts go out to you all. This is an incredible and tragic loss for such a wonderful family. While I only have met Pam, I can only imagine that the rest of your family is as thoughtful, genuine, and kind as she is. I hope the healing process is thorough and builds a stronger bond between you all.

My heartfelt condolences,
Drew”

— Drew Hansen

“Sorry to hear about Maddie, you are in our prayers”

— Timothy Brown

“Dearest Pam, Jeff, Caroline and Juliet, we are heartbroken to hear of your lovely Maddie’s passing. May the light that was her special gift remain in your hearts and comfort you always. Sending you much love and sympathy.”

— Theresa and Chris Clode and family

“There are no words when you can no longer catch them when they fall. There are no words when you can no longer hold them tight when the night is too long. There are no words to sooth the pain away. We pray for a tomorrow, may it gently push the bottomless darkness aside and make space for your beautiful angel to shine through.
Pam, Jeff, Caroline and Juliet we send you all the strength and love we have.”

— Elzeline and Ronald de Leeuw

“Pam and Family,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Words can't express my sincerest apologies. All of you are deep in my thoughts, and heart.”

— Nathan Magdaleno

“It has taken some time to wrap my head around the revelation of Maddie’s passing. My heart aches for you all, there just simply are not any words to convey my empathy and sympathy. I pray for God’s grace and love to surround and support you along with your friends and loved ones as you grieve. I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter and pray that she has found peace. May you find solace in each other, in the loving memories you will always carry of Maddie and in God’s loving embrace.”

— Wendy Cossette

“Cramer Family, I am so saddened to hear about the loss of Maddie. I am praying for your family during this unbelievably challenging time.”

— Anna Schwartz

“Dear Pam, Jeff and family,
Please know that we are heartbroken about the loss of your daughter Maddie. These are the transitions that none of us are prepared to deal with. Know that the community of your friends and peers are doing the best we can to uphold you with unconditional support and love. We send our deepest condolences and sympathy to you during this difficult time. You are and will continue to be forefront in our thoughts and our prayers. Sending our Love to the Cramer Family.”

— Gary & Kara Moore

“Sending love and support to the Cramer family. I know this is a challenging time. It’s good to see the support of so many Colorado Academy families. Let me know if there’s anything we can do to support you.”

— Mike Davis

“Your Maddie is in our heartfelt thoughts and prayers. The lord gained a beautiful Angel in eternal heavenly life! God bless your family and your Maddie.”

— Christopher and Julianne Clay

“Sending deepest sympathies to your family over your devastating loss. I had such high hopes for Maddie in the brief time I knew her, and share your sadness. Sending best wishes for your comfort and healing at this difficult time.”

— Dr. Carla Correll

“Jeff and Pam
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
May her memory be a blessing.”

— Al and Leslie Berlinberg

“Dear Cramer family, our hearts break for you
How we loved Maddie’s spunk and zest for life from when we first met her at Willows. Her smile was contagious.
Sending hugs”

— Dave and Cici Peterson

“I’m thinking of the sweetest girl who watched my children when they were small. Dear Maddie was so kind and adventurous and we will always remember the beautiful smile that would light up any room whenever she came to our home.
We are praying for your family.”

— Michelle Fruciano

“Pam, Jeff, Caroline, and Juliet; I am thinking of all of you and sending my love and prayers to you. Maddie was certainly loved by many and may her memory be eternal. Know that you all have the brightest shining star in the sky.”

— Alexis (Mueller) Peifer

“I am so heartbroken for your tragic loss. My daughter, Sarah, will be there for the service. May you find peace in the arms of your family and friends during this difficult time. God bless you all!”

— John Sheerer

“Amazing coworker and friend. You will be dearly missed.”

— Jennifer Ojeda

“So deeply sorry for your loss. Sending love and hugs from Texas”

— Alli Crew

“So much love and so many prayers for you guys.”

— Eva Sava

“Dear Cramer family, our memories of Maddie are warm, happy and vibrant. She was a shining star. We send love and comfort to all of you.”

— Liz and Griffin O’Brien and family

“Pam, Jeff, Caroline, and Juliet,
Looking through the photos it is clear the Maddie was loved by so many. My heart goes out to all of you. Sending thoughts of comfort and love.”

— Julie Musantry

“Caroline, Juliet, Pam, and Jeff, I am so sorry for your loss. I was always so impressed with Maddie’s humor, artistic talent, and kind spirit. Truly such a beautiful and vibrant soul. I am sending you all love and comfort.”

— Paige Maney

“So deeply sorry for your loss - very few bonds in life are as strong as the ones formed between siblings. Sending you all love and peace during this time.”

— Eddie Kolbinskie

“Know we are sorry about Maddie. We are in our prayers and are holding your family close to our hearts. She was a sweet girl. Let us know if we can do ANY THING FOR YOU.”

— Elaine and Dave licko

“ “She’s in the sun, the wind, the rain,
She’s in the air you breathe
She sings a song of hope and cheer,
There’s no more pain, no more fear.
You’ll see her in the clouds above
Hear her whisper words of love
You’ll be together before too long,
Until then, listen for her song”

Maddie is no longer in pain. She is in Heaven living her best life watching down on all of you. I have no words to heal your hearts. Please know that I pray for peace for all of you. May that sweet child rest in peace.”

— Nickie Manning

“I didn’t know Maddie well but I did know how loved she was. I remember Juliet always bragging about her cool older sisters. From what I had heard and learned from Juliet, Maddie was passionate. Sending love.”

— Quinn Taylor

“Cramer family, we are heartbroken and devastated to hear about the loss of Maddie. She has such a special soul and I always enjoyed times I’ve spent with her. We’ve been thinking about all of you and sending love and comfort.”

— Jacqueline and Tyler

“The gallery is such a beautiful tribute to Maddie and your family. It was like a hug from her to go through the photos. I am privileged to have been in her orbit (and all of yours)”

— Tracey Allan

“Juliet, I’m so sorry for your loss. I am sending you and your family so much love and I will keep you in my prayers. I know we have only met once but I know how much strength you have. You have a great support system and so many people love you and are here for you.”

— Erin Martin

“You are such a badass human and I will miss you eternally.”

— Juliet Cramer

“I will not be able to make it to the memorial service but my prayers and love go out to the whole family. Maddie will be missed.”

— Chris Lee

“Dearest Pam, Jeff, Caroline and Juliet,
There are no words to ease your pain in this terrible loss of Maddie. Only the tincture of time can even begin to heal your hearts. Love and light, Deb”

— Debbie Heverly

“There are no words to express how sorry we are. You lost your baby, a pain that is unimaginable. We will continue from now until always to remember Maddie and all of you in our prayers. We love you.”

— Niki a Gioiosa & family

“Maddie you are a beautiful soul that will be missed by many. Continue to shine bright in heaven and bring your gorgeous smile. Love you always.”

— Tracie O'Brien

“Maddie was a true light and I can’t remember a time where she didn’t make me laugh when we were growing up. I’ll never forget the story of her in preschool marching up to my dad asking him if he was my grandpa because of his grey hair, we still tell that story to people to this day because it’s so funny and everyone laughs. Sending you
the family so much love and healing energy through this difficult time.”

— Ariana Savci

“Cramer Family- Sending you my deepest condolences.
Maddie- I will miss your laugh, your advice, our evening bike rides around Cap Hill and Wash Park, your smile, our inside jokes, our recon missions, us helping each other get through tough times, and celebrating good times together. Rest easy, you will be profoundly missed.”

— Liz Soby

“What incredible memories you have of your amazing, beautiful, and talented Maddie! What an incomparable personality! She was loved by all and will be remembered by everyone that ever knew her. Heaven has another angel for sure. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family now and in the future.”

— Diane Nichols

“I was so lucky to have met Maddie. She was such force with her free spirit and loving nature. She always made me laugh and met me with a smile. I will miss you my friend. I wish you peace, and will love you always.”

— Michele Garcia

“Sending my love and warmth to you all.”

— Delaney Dill

“Oh, my sweet Maddie. I love all of you so very much. I am sending all of my love and prayers. I can’t wait to hug you all. I am praying for peace and strength and happy memories of our girl. I CHERISH my memories of being your nanny for all three of you beautiful girls.”

— Allie de Craen

“Dearest Pam and Jeff, We are heartbroken and so sorry to learn about sweet Maddie. Your family is in our prayers. We are here to support you in any way we can. God bless Maddie and your family.”

— Bob and Diane King

“There are no words, only how vey sorry we are for your loss.We feel so privileged that we got to meet your beautiful Maddie at Hannah and Nathan's wedding reception in Dallas. You could see her warmth and pleasure in celebrating her family. Please know you are all in our thoughts, prayers and our hearts. Love Don, Leslie, Laura, Cooper, Claire and Evan.”

— Don and Leslie Casey

“My heart goes out to the Cramer family. I will always think of Maddie as when our girls started the first day of pre-K together at CA. She had such a big personality. She was always smiling in my memory of her, just like in the gallery pics. I also will always remember that she and Taylor did first communion together at Cabrini. She had that trademark smile that day. That seems like it was yesterday. Please accept my most sincere of condolences.”

— Craig Rabb

“I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.”

— Rusty

“Dear Cramer Family
Our prayers and thoughts are with you
Please know we’re all thinking of you
and wishing we could take your pain away. Maddie no longer has “demons”
Controlling her. She’s now your angel
watching over you. God Bless. Aunt Bev, & Uncle John & family.”

— Beverly Mueller

“Dearest Caroline and family,
The words we are so sorry for your loss don’t begin to convey the sadness that the news of Maddie’s passing brought.
We only hope that you know we are thinking of you all and sending love and support. Embrace the happy memories and hold them and her in your hearts.
Love to you all.”

— Deanna and Randy Golden

“Maddie I will miss your go-to attitude and endless smiles and support at every family get together. You are in my heart always.”

— Bill Smith

“Maddie will be a light in my life forever.”

— Kristy Smith